Post by ladystrong on Nov 22, 2017 13:52:40 GMT -7
GHP,
Don’t give up on yourself. Your marriage may not be where you want it to be and it may even end but that doesn’t have to be the end of your life and the way you live it. Don’t let your marriage define, destroy or isolate you. You still have choices and you still have at least another 30 years to live. I know you’re battling with heavy depression and anxiety. I was there for a short time and i know the feeling of just wanting to sleep, just wanting the world to go away. If anything make the decision to heal yourself, without expecting anything from your husband. God has you at rock bottom and I think He may want you to let go of your husband. It took the affair for me to fully let go of mine in my heart and give him over to God. I no longer went to him to find peace and comfort. It was all on God.
You’ve been at a crossroads for nearly a year now with some progress, which is awesome! But, I think you’ve relied so heavily on your husband’s change to give you the joy that can only come from Christ and that’s going to leave you disappointed every time. Why? Because we are sinners and each one of us has the freewill to choose to sin or not. Your husband will not change unless he wants to and you can’t make him so don’t depend on him to make your life happy. M
If anything, make the choice to HEAL through the pain with Jesus and with other women face to face. He’s your only hope, He’s the only one who is faithful, He’s the only one who will never let you down. Cling to Him and you will never be disappointed. And find face to face friends who will love you no matter what. You need real people in your life who will support you through thick and thin. If leaving the trucking job is what you have to do to be healthy and be in fellowship, do it!
I love you and I want what’s best for you but I cannot make you do anything. Praying that you would get a breakthrough! *HUGS*
Don’t give up on yourself. Your marriage may not be where you want it to be and it may even end but that doesn’t have to be the end of your life and the way you live it. Don’t let your marriage define, destroy or isolate you. You still have choices and you still have at least another 30 years to live. I know you’re battling with heavy depression and anxiety. I was there for a short time and i know the feeling of just wanting to sleep, just wanting the world to go away. If anything make the decision to heal yourself, without expecting anything from your husband. God has you at rock bottom and I think He may want you to let go of your husband. It took the affair for me to fully let go of mine in my heart and give him over to God. I no longer went to him to find peace and comfort. It was all on God.
You’ve been at a crossroads for nearly a year now with some progress, which is awesome! But, I think you’ve relied so heavily on your husband’s change to give you the joy that can only come from Christ and that’s going to leave you disappointed every time. Why? Because we are sinners and each one of us has the freewill to choose to sin or not. Your husband will not change unless he wants to and you can’t make him so don’t depend on him to make your life happy. M
If anything, make the choice to HEAL through the pain with Jesus and with other women face to face. He’s your only hope, He’s the only one who is faithful, He’s the only one who will never let you down. Cling to Him and you will never be disappointed. And find face to face friends who will love you no matter what. You need real people in your life who will support you through thick and thin. If leaving the trucking job is what you have to do to be healthy and be in fellowship, do it!
I love you and I want what’s best for you but I cannot make you do anything. Praying that you would get a breakthrough! *HUGS*