wiltingiris
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Post by wiltingiris on Aug 20, 2015 19:35:23 GMT -7
Hi all, I am so saddened by the story of the Duggars. They are a couple that need a support system like Blazing Grace there is no other site as good. My prayer for them is that they find their way to getting support and that someday he could experience freedom. That is my prayer for everyone in this site. It is hard to see people suffer in the same stuff your family is suffering. I just don't wish what we are going through on nobody. I feel out of words so I will leave it at this they are a family who loves the Lord and their faith is being tested. They are people just like us. I also pray that they will be able to stand. Not faint! God bless you all.
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Post by KevinesKay on Aug 20, 2015 21:08:59 GMT -7
Lord,
We pray for the Duggar family and what they are up against. Give them all strength to deal with this. And we pray for Josh and his family. We pray that you give him hope and direction. That's all, Lord. We have faith that you'll restore him. Thank you. We receive, and we pray this in Jesus' name. Amen.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 21, 2015 6:18:55 GMT -7
Yes, I will pray for him. However, he's a PEDOPHILE.
1. He should've gone through the prison system like everyone else
2. He should be a registered pedophile.
3. I'm sure he has more victims and he will now pick his victims more carefully.
4. I FEAR for his children.
I hope CPS is all over his family until they are 18.
He just got away with it b/c he's rich.
Oh, the police officer that "gave him a talking to" instead of arresting him.......went to jail on child porn charges. So one pedophile kept another pedophile from facing the law and THAT WAS HIS JOB.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 21, 2015 6:57:23 GMT -7
Also, have you considered what would happen if Josh Duggar came here, not that he's not welcome, but we'd be spammed so badly every single day just b/c it's a famous guy.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 21, 2015 6:58:02 GMT -7
And they would spam this board with so much P just to get even with him, it would shut us down.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 21, 2015 11:24:07 GMT -7
I know God can work on Josh's heart and it would be a radical change. I do pray for his wife and children. I pray He never acted out against his children. I have no love loss for Josh tho. I believe he should go through the penal system just as anyone else would. I pray that his wife has the strength to do what needs to be done to protect the children. The innocent aren't able to protect themselves. I had to make that choice recently. I pray she is able to do the same.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 21, 2015 14:13:41 GMT -7
Amy, dittos on your post. I'm so proud that you made that difficult choice to put your children first. That takes a lot of strength.
I wonder if Josh Duggar's wife even knew or did she find out when the story broke? I tell ya, is she didn't know, she must be going through some serious shock and PTSD. I would have to pray VERY hard about staying married to him b/c of my children. I believe they are very young. Perhaps he was molested himself or porn got a hold of him. But still, fondling your very young siblings while they are sleeping is very disturbing! My gosh, they were 8 and UNDER. Some of them had to be 4 or 5 years old.
I think he was 15, not 14 too. That's old enough to know better.
They do say Jeffry Dauhmer got saved and so did Ted Bundy, (I think). I'd have to check. Dauhmer was in a prison about a half an hour from my house in WI and he was killed in prison.
Amy,do you have any pets? I am sitting upstairs in bed with my cat Callie who loves to be wrapped up in her favorite binky that she sucks on and falls asleep in.
This cat is more therapy than the last therapist I had. I got her free on Craigslist. I saw her sitting in the front of her siblings looking at the camera, and the Holy Spirit said, "that is your cat."
Maybe when your health is better, you could consider getting a pet? I don't want to pry so I don't know if you're in a rental situation that doesn't allow pets or something.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 21, 2015 17:40:05 GMT -7
HS3, I am living with my family in a home that my sister owns. We do have a pet. A Boston Terrier named Ollie. He is a family pet. When I first came home he slept with me all night. Now he spends half the night with me and half with my mom. Although I think he may have abandoned me because mom is now letting him sleep on her extra pillow...what can I say my mom plays dirty! lol. My sister would like to get a cat but not sure where we would put the litter box plus mom hates the smell. I think Ollie would be ok with a cat. He does get territorial with other dogs. It's just getting everyone to agree to having another animal and then taking care of it. I think it would fall on me to empty the litter box and feed the cat. I seriously can't see anyone else doing it. Right now I don't have the energy to take it on. I had a cat named Jack that would catch treats when I threw them. He also sat on command...treat training. He was smart and very loving.
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wiltingiris
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Post by wiltingiris on Aug 21, 2015 19:50:02 GMT -7
This place should be a safe place for the people with addictions to come out and speak of their troubles and get help not for people to cast judgement. I am sick and tired of the people who want to stand in God's shoes and say they are perfect and everyone with sexual thoughts is a pedafile. I got to say perfection does not fit in Blazing Grace. It is the imperfect broken people who are affected by addiction that should be here. If you are not a christian then, why are you in a christian site? I do not think the qualifications to being a moderator for you HS3 were really looked at carefully. You are bitter nasty and have no compassion for the men who need help here. You want to live out a victims life and want to be over deserving well. Sorry to say unless he actually did anything out of this world in my book Josh Duggar is just a broken man who started out a broken teen with little support for his addiction. You out of all people since your husband's battle has been so severe. You should know better. This is a huge addiction just as bad as a cocaine addiction. It almost seems like you are so full of yourself and clueless. Eat this! Yes, I am furious with you. (Openly expressing myself the way you do without hair on my tongue).
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wiltingiris
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Post by wiltingiris on Aug 21, 2015 19:51:18 GMT -7
OH Well delete me now then !!!
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wiltingiris
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Post by wiltingiris on Aug 21, 2015 19:52:27 GMT -7
Funny how some people can say whatever and it is not called harsh they can offend and its okay.
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wiltingiris
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Post by wiltingiris on Aug 21, 2015 19:53:11 GMT -7
You keep her as a moderator and this site will remain stagnant.
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wiltingiris
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Post by wiltingiris on Aug 21, 2015 20:18:34 GMT -7
All I know is that men in this forum need to be protected. They do not to be called by what they did in the past. I will not call someone that as a teen felt up some girls as a petafile specially if he asked for forgiveness and did his best and never did it again. He had an uncontrollable addiction and did not have the best support or knowledgeable people in his life to get him out of his sexual addictions. He was not equipt. I think women in this site should all be moved to a place where they cannot hurt the people that are trying to forgive themselves and move on. People that want to keep the men here living in condemnation should be out.
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Post by KevinesKay on Aug 21, 2015 21:53:46 GMT -7
I know that my wife's words are hard to hear, but try to get the message behind them.
As someone who has done just about everything that Josh did, I feel the same judgement coming from others that call him a pedophile going toward me. And if I were Josh, or someone else who did the same things he did, I would not feel welcome at all towards this site. I thought this might be a safe place for people like me to turn to.
I guess I was wrong...
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Post by Deleted on Aug 22, 2015 1:40:15 GMT -7
Amy,
We put cedar chips over the cat litter. We also put a few newspapers on the bottom so it's easier to clean and that keeps the smell down.
I'll add more chips a few days after we dump the litter and clean out the plastic litter box with diluted bleach.
We have five cats and there is no smell.
HS2
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