Post by Deleted on Jun 3, 2017 15:18:59 GMT -7
One thing that was not mentioned about setting boundaries was also setting consequences. Any boundaries you set to help you feel safe have to have consequences attached to them for when they are crossed. So if you decide that you would like a boundary to be no electronics in the bedrooms, then what is the consequence for when a phone or tablet gets brought in?
Kevin is right about your boundaries needing to be focused on your feeling safe emotionally and physically. Hubby will need to work out his own boundaries to help him overcome his addiction. I, like Kevin, had to put my own boundaries in place when I started my own overcoming journey. I still am vigilant on not crossing them and I have been porn free 9 years.
Kevin is right about your boundaries needing to be focused on your feeling safe emotionally and physically. Hubby will need to work out his own boundaries to help him overcome his addiction. I, like Kevin, had to put my own boundaries in place when I started my own overcoming journey. I still am vigilant on not crossing them and I have been porn free 9 years.