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Post by Deleted on Jul 5, 2015 4:50:22 GMT -7
Stev,
I'm not offended at your comment. I just wanted to make myself clear to all where I stand as a moderator.
I understand the need to take a break from the forum b/c I do that myself. I think a part of healing is giving yourself a break from it all b/c our emotions can only take so much. I do hope you stay b/c you have SO much to offer everyone here and that's including my hubby who does more reading than posting.
Take care and I'll be praying for you and your family.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 5, 2015 4:51:46 GMT -7
And BNB is right, you have a big heart and so do all the other men here who make themselves vulnerable by sharing their struggles.
You've done a great job staying sober too!
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Post by Deleted on Jul 5, 2015 7:45:38 GMT -7
In a sense I had been a little over-protective of a defending a marriage. I think it's a very good and honorable thing to be overly-protective of marriage. None of us can say for sure whether another person should or shouldn't stay in a marriage, but it's safe to say that in general marriages should be fought for and defended. BNB, do you feel you are more in need of counsel or support, or are both helpful at this point? |
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Post by Deleted on Jul 5, 2015 17:35:01 GMT -7
Thank you ladies for your well-meaning comments. Sister HS3 I do understand your position and I am still sorry that what started out for me as well meaning intentions ended up in me posting comments that were a complete mess which unintentionally hurt people, including yourself. This particularly upsets me because you are a very wise and respected person on this forum. In hindsight I should have just asked a few questions instead of 'jumping the gun.' I have no excuse but it wasn't intentional as I do love everyone here, as a Brother in Christ.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 6, 2015 8:48:13 GMT -7
Steve, steve, steve.
If only you could read your post through others eyes.I read it again and I don't see anything whatsoever offensive about it. Honest.I think its just how you see it. maybe even how you felt it[and that's ok]. I do know that a forum without controversary or disagreements sometimes on things is also a forum where people don't grow,learn or step outside the box. so I don't mind someone speaking their real feelings in a Godly way whatsoever. I welcome it, Particulary on important topics as divorce, addiction, and all the things we all talk about here. So please please please DO NOT feel bad about anything you've said. As I said, I don't think anyone found it offensive but you. So glad you've decided to stay!!!You have too much wisdom and experience to not.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 6, 2015 13:58:21 GMT -7
Thank You very much for your kind words bentnotbroken. And Praise God he has kept us all on this forum - I am so humbled to still be here with you all.
I have a very sensitive spirit Sister and I believe I really did cross the line, but all has been graciously forgiven and now forgotten, so I look forward to being here on the Forum in a real positive way.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 10, 2015 21:03:54 GMT -7
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