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Post by Deleted on May 10, 2005 15:04:03 GMT -7
Mike-
I've recently e-mailed you, and I'll see you Monday night. I don't know if I should say my name on the forum, but it will be said on Monday night. I'm new to this whole thing, so I don't know quite what should be said.
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Post by Deleted on May 20, 2005 2:34:31 GMT -7
My work computer crashed last week. It is in the shop and they gave me a replacement today. Two months ago I put Covenant Eyes on the work computer and had it post to a coworker and my wife. Although I have not acted out in almost two months, I want to remove as much temptation as possible. I could feel the lie creep into my head that I was doing okay and did not need accountability anymore. We all know who the father of lies is. As soon as I booted this new computer I had my coworker install Covenant Eyes. It feels "safe" now to get back online.
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Post by Deleted on May 20, 2005 11:04:34 GMT -7
Idleness is the devil's greatest opening. At least in my life it is. Having moved to a new big city, I'm jobless (and looking but not succeeding) and have no social life (extreme introvert). Not a good mix:(. Either way I struggle greatly with acting out, now even more so that I have nothing else to keep me busy and out of sin. Just keep me in your prayers guys, Lord knows we all need prayer.
(daily dose of hope)Hebrews 4:14-15
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Post by mike on May 21, 2005 4:01:32 GMT -7
Hi Metatauta -
Thanks for posting; I appreciate your honesty. Isolation is death in this game, and the battle is twice as hard for those who introverts. I hope and pray that you are able to make connections at a local church that'll help take the edge off the isolation.
These boards can help some, but we all need "grace with skin on", as I've heard Chuck Swindoll say. I say this to encourage you to reach out.
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Post by Deleted on May 31, 2005 16:50:50 GMT -7
This is a new attempt at a new way to kick this thing.
Failed attempts include:
Formating my hard drive, and of course, falling into it again, several times.
Trying being accountable to a close friend. That sortof drove the two of us apart, until now we don't really talk at all any more.
Trying to cut myself off gradually, masturbating and/or viewing less frequently, but I always lose out.
I think the statistics are the only place I am not a total pathetic wierdo, I didn't start until I was 21, about 2 and a half years ago. I just fell so quickly, it's sometimes hard to accept. I made a promise to G_D that I'd try again, and maybe this will help.
I'll try to do a weekly post through the summer while I'm in the worst possible setup, taking a quarter off school, not found a job yet, and I'm trying to cut back on video games too.
Next week, I will try to remember to talk about how I think I ended up in my own personalized hell.
Paul M.
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Post by Deleted on May 31, 2005 19:15:38 GMT -7
Personalized hell is the perfect description for it. How horrifically sad and amazing that it can go so far so fast. oh Lord help us.
needless to say I haven't been doing well. I need to get into the Word more, I know my biggest issue is I looking for love everywhere but where it really is, and reading my Bible will most definetly help me remember. I still cant believe I ever allowed it to go this far and it makes me sick to know that I have. But now all I can do is turn around and start climbing out of this ravene with God as my rope and His word as my harness.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 10, 2005 9:02:43 GMT -7
Well, I changed my situation a bit. I'm not working, but I will be going to school, so I won't be bored out of my skull with yet another excuse.
still hoping to improve.
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Post by mike on Jun 11, 2005 1:21:57 GMT -7
Good to hear from you PaulM... do you have a major in mind ?
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Post by Deleted on Jun 12, 2005 12:32:22 GMT -7
Hello everyone.
I am new to forums in general. This is the first time I have ever posted anything. This site is helpful, but I have a couple of questions about it. What does the logo stand for? And what is mana?
Mike, I noticed that you live in Colorado Springs. I too live in Colorado Springs. Do you know of any local accountability groups? I tried a 12-step program, and I disliked it for several reasons. The main reason I disliked it was that it was set up so that no one could contradict or correct or disagree with what anyone said. You just had to sit in silence and say nothing in response. I am looking for a group which will rebuke me when I fall into sin or erroneous thinking, but which will also do so with love, tenderness, and compassion. I am also looking for a group where everyone has struggles and confesses his sins to the rest, not one where just one person confesses sins to another. So do you know of any local groups in which I can become involved?
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Post by mike on Jun 13, 2005 0:38:39 GMT -7
Hi Filius Dei -
The Strength in Numbers group meets Monday nights here in Colorado Springs at 6:30. If you'll email me I'll give you the location. (I don't publish the location to protect the confidentiality of those who attend.)
We do minister to each other during the meetings. We're not there to put the hammer on each other, but constructive feedback and support from others is an important part of the recovery process. As you mentioned, dispelling erroneous thinking is a part of the struggle, and we need the (grace filled) input of others to deal with it.
A little info on the group is available here:
www.blazinggrace.org/strengthinnumbers.htm
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Post by Deleted on Jun 13, 2005 3:41:21 GMT -7
I don't know your e-mail, and for some reason I cannot open the link you posted. Perhaps my internet filter is blocking it; I don't know. What is your e-mail address?
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Post by mike on Jun 13, 2005 4:01:40 GMT -7
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Post by Deleted on Sept 4, 2005 6:46:21 GMT -7
I just went four days with out acting out, which currently is huge for me. A few days back I thought four days was a pretty reasonable goal, so I asked God to help me reach that goal. It was a hard struggle for me, but i found myself praying a lot more and lusting a lot less. I actually found my self getting angry at the fact that i am addicted to this, and was also angered a few times when i was hit with temptation.
Early this morning, I gave in, and again in the afternoon (Sunday afternoons can be a death trap of temptation for me). Pray that I won't find my self in a masturbation binge which happens often after going awhile with out acting out.
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