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Post by ladystrong on Aug 25, 2017 17:43:19 GMT -7
Checked out this site again through the Torn Asunder book. Also picked up another site by Anne and Brian Bercht who recovered from his affair and are helping others now. There are three PDF's of questions that are often asked before & after disclosure. It's good to know I'm not alone in feeling stuck in pain and anger and that the MINIMUM time to be fully healed is after TWO YEARS- that's with continuous intensive work. But that's just the minimum time. I doubt I'll be there in two years and that's ok. I'm glad to know that where I'm at is exactly where I need to be.
Anger is the hardest part for me to deal with at this time. I'm getting as much info on how to deal with it as possible.
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Post by ladystrong on Aug 25, 2017 18:06:03 GMT -7
Here's the website: beyondaffairs.com.
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Post by ladystrong on Aug 26, 2017 18:17:47 GMT -7
I might become a coordinator for this in my area in the future. I know there are a lot of people out there who just need to know they aren't alone in their feelings. The ultimate goal is to leave the group because you've recovered.
I'm just not finding people who have fully recovered, much less someone who is willing to talk about what they've gone through, which is frustrating! I'm praying we are fully healed in the future.
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