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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2017 19:34:22 GMT -7
I desperately need prayers to God Almighty to save my home. My husband of 18 years and my high school sweet heart and love of 25 years has been in multiple affairs and possibly having one right now. He has physically separated from me for about 8 months. We live in the same house, but any attempts at discussion make him very angry. I want to desperately save my marriage. I want my husband to heal. I don't want to fall into sin from lack of emotional and physical intimacy from him. I don't want our children to be refugees in two homes. I still love this man. There is good in him. I need an army of prayers, to plead God Almighty to heal us, to heal him, to heal our marriage, to bring our family together in love. I want to get Satan out of my home.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2017 19:40:35 GMT -7
I am sorry you are experiencing this. I pray that the Lord will guide you in how to proceed. That He will bring all sin into the light so that it can be healed.
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Post by ladystrong on Jul 24, 2017 21:01:32 GMT -7
I'm in the fight with you. Have you been able to ask other women in your church for prayer as well? Since you have already confronted him and his reaction is anger, have you asked other men to confront him as well?
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Post by Deleted on Jul 25, 2017 12:53:58 GMT -7
We live in the same house, but any attempts at discussion make him very angry. Hello, prayingwife. I am really sorry that this is happening and will be praying for you. Bless you for reaching out. Have you suggested to your husband that a counselor/mediator might open up proper communication between the two of you so that the marriage can begin the healing process? Would he be willing to see a therapist on his own? Would he be willing to go to couple's counseling with you? Has he acknowledged that the affair(s) are/have been sinful? It sounds like maybe your husband is not ready to face his demons and any attempt to get him to reflect on himself and the way his actions affect the family is an extremely scary prospect for him. Maybe some outside help is the way to go to get the conversation started. Before my husband was ready to admit that he had an addiction to pornography, he would do one of two things: completely deny it and make me feel like I was crazy for even thinking that he was watching porn (gaslighting), or get very angry at me and extremely defensive. Unfortunately, until your husband is ready to be truthful with himself about what exactly it is that he is doing, how he honestly feels about it, and why, his reaction to your attempts to discuss it will most likely not be productive. No one is perfect. But you deserve a husband who loves and respects you without reserve. Jesus can heal your marriage. But it kinda starts with your husband, if you know what I mean. *prayers your way* |
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