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Post by Deleted on Mar 7, 2017 8:30:28 GMT -7
Pete, I understand you want to work on yourself and forget about everything else. Being an adult is never easy and your niece needs your help right now. Turn it in anonymously and move on. You can only do so much in this situation and turning it in is the last thing you can do. Whether she is truthful about what her mom lets her do is up to her. But I think you will regret it later on if you don't do everything you can to get her help.
I know as a child who survived incest that you can't make children tell the truth. When dad was turned in anonymously all of us kids lied. But I am grateful to the adult that tried to help. It also made the adults in my life more aware of me and they did their best to guide and speak into my life and I know they prayed fervently for me. I credit all that for bringing me through and out on the other side as a strong broken yet functioning adult who relies heavily on Christ.
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Post by teetop on Mar 7, 2017 11:11:32 GMT -7
Well, now that we know Pete's name, it makes it easier to speak to the subject.
Girls, it sounds commendable that Pete turns the situation over to the authorities.
But: notice the BUT? Does anyone know how the authorities are going to react?
I suspect the Children Services along with the police and DA will go after anyone involved in the case with guns blazing, just for a start.
And the chances of Pete not being dragged into the investigation is highly unlikely.
In fact, unless he can prove beyond a reasonable doubt that he has never participated in anything that pertained to the girl's sexual exploitation, he will be facing jail or prison time.
From his own words, the mother and niece were living in his home during some of the time the videos were being played.
That makes him culpable for the crime if I'm not mistaken. Secondly, from his description as to what she had to say to him recently when he went to collect money from his sister-in-law, puts him in a real bad light. And also from my reading what was posted earlier, I'd say the chances are pretty good that the niece has been involved deeper than just watching videos. (And by the way, that is experience talking and another story.)
As for any suggestions Pete, I can only say, your sister-in-law and Niece needs help to overcome their actions.
But to tell you how to bring that about is something you will have to decide.
I can, guarantee, though, you will have opened a kettle of worms for yourself the minute that door is opened.
I do think you need to turn the situation into the authorities at the same time be prepared for the consequences.
The most we here in this group can do, is to lift you, your Niece and sister-in-law up in prayer, that God will direct your steps.
I also suspect that there are probably others involved in the case too.
(Again experience too.)
Virgil
May God guide your footsteps! Amen!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 7, 2017 15:27:46 GMT -7
That's another thing I thought of too. No one knows anything except me and them two and if I tell then it's obviously they know it's me. And yeah as tee said I'll get that on me too so really can't win.
The other thing is tee mentioned was there could be others involved too.
I can't be sure with that though as they go into the city and I have no idea what she gets upto but usually I can tell or they would tell me. My sister inlaw said only me is allowed to do sexual things with her and teach her.
But yeah I'm more on the side of just fixing my own thing at the moment.
I would like to help my niece but just right now I can't.. and that being is Iam a way too sexual frustrated and everyday I think of sex and seeing her thing, I can't forget so not sure if that's a good thing or bad...
Yes at first I did want to see it but she was younger and then now a little older I did but now I just want to get on and fix my issues and not be around them because if I do then that urges are going to come back and this time I might even have sex with her.
My first session went good so I've got another soon and I want to keep at it.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 7, 2017 15:57:57 GMT -7
I am glad your first session went well. Keep going back. It will be difficult...Change is never easy....But it is worth it.
I can see where Tee is coming from about you ending up as part of the investigation. Adulting really is a pain in the neck most times.
I will continue to pray for you.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 7, 2017 21:03:24 GMT -7
amen thanks for the prays everyone as I'm going through a hard time in life dealing with this, and ofcouse my niece as well. I shouldn't of got so close in the first place, she is a lovely girl and she is very pretty and from the times we spent and the shares we had together it drew us closer and closer and we both had a big affection towards each other.
I've been struggling with relationships so much and I've always felt great with my niece and we are just so close. I've never had so much companionship like that and being around other girls didn't do much for me but with her I get very horny and it goes up in seconds.
I've become attached to her but she is way to young.
It is going to be a very hard journey for me and god help me through this time of life.
maybe now I know why guys like little girls and find it easygoing with them because men can get what they want from little girls.
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Post by Deleted on Mar 8, 2017 6:20:57 GMT -7
The truth is that you CAN'T get what you want from little girls. They are too immature to be a fitting companion for an adult male. The fact that you believe otherwise is a lie straight from the pit of hell. You need to start speaking truth into your life and it needs to start with countering these wrong thoughts with the truth. Also you need the truth of scripture so start reading the Bible and try memorizing verses that speak to you. If you can't memorize them, write them down on note cards and carry them with you so you have them.
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Post by teetop on Mar 20, 2017 2:05:29 GMT -7
Whoa-boy, you've already gone too far with your relationship with your niece.
What you continue describing is nothing more than 'LUST' at work in your flesh.
And while I'm at it, you have given a perfect description that would be posted in an Incest group to elicit a response from other members to draw them into your world of degradation.
Now I know it is real hard at times to describe our call for help but for those of us who have been drawn into the world of the flesh and Incest, we are better off to communicate one on one and not in the group setting. Now I can not speak for any of the moderators here, but I can still address your ongoing fantasy with your 11-year-old niece. (My phone number is listed, so you can call me if you wish to work on YOUR addiction)
1Co_6:18 Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body.
1Co_10:14 Therefore, my beloved, flee from idolatry.
1Ti_6:11 But flee from these things, you man of God, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, perseverance and gentleness.
2Ti_2:22 Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.
Jas_4:7 Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.
These are just a few verses that cover what our actions should be.
Virgil
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Post by Deleted on Mar 20, 2017 6:48:06 GMT -7
Whoa-boy, you've already gone too far with your relationship with your niece.
What you continue describing is nothing more than 'LUST' at work in your flesh.
And while I'm at it, you have given a perfect description that would be posted in an Incest group to elicit a response from other members to draw them into your world of degradation.
Now I know it is real hard at times to describe our call for help but for those of us who have been drawn into the world of the flesh and Incest, we are better off to communicate one on one and not in the group setting. Now I can not speak for any of the moderators here, but I can still address your ongoing fantasy with your 11-year-old niece. (My phone number is listed, so you can call me if you wish to work on YOUR addiction)
1Co_6:18 Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body.
1Co_10:14 Therefore, my beloved, flee from idolatry.
1Ti_6:11 But flee from these things, you man of God, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, perseverance and gentleness.
2Ti_2:22 Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.
Jas_4:7 Submit therefore to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.
These are just a few verses that cover what our actions should be.
Virgil
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