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Post by Deleted on Dec 22, 2016 20:28:42 GMT -7
I have stayed off here for a little while because I needed to not think about my husband's problems so much that it consumes me. Tonight, however, I need to vent. He said he'd come home from work this afternoon and spend some time with me while we watch the game together. No game later, he is now asleep on the couch after an exhausting several hours of ignoring me while looking at public profiles of women on facebook. At one point, I walked in on him with his pants down, and he was quite startled that I found him that way. He said "I was just getting dressed" and "I was trying to find a person I knew on facebook (note that he had previously permanently deleted the 3 accounts I knew he had in my presence), but I never found her." That was along the same lines of what he said when I found his extensive porn history. I wonder how stupid he thinks I am.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 22, 2016 21:07:20 GMT -7
I am sorry. Hugs and prayers hon.
Lying is as natural as breathing to addicts trying to hide their addictions and avoid confrontation/consequences. Lying actually makes things worse but addicts don't see that. It destroys just as quickly as the action of looking at porn.
It saddens me to see to hear that you are experiencing this. Take some you time and treat yourself to some stress relieving activity.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 22, 2016 21:46:20 GMT -7
Thanks. We got in a huge fight and he left while screaming "I have done everything I can to make you happy!" Etc., etc. What our neighbors must think of us. Oh well. He left his wallet here, but I don't really know where he went or when he'll be back. Try to get some sleep, I guess.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 23, 2016 8:17:03 GMT -7
Honey don't worry about what the neighbors think. I have been through and seen so many "drama" fights that my heart goes out to both in the relationship. I am betting that most people are like me and just worry about your safety and well-being. If they judge based on what they heard your husband scream, they need God just as badly as your husband.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 27, 2016 20:37:28 GMT -7
Oh, Kelly, I am so sorry that you are going through all of this. Are things any better? They just don't get it, do they?
Hugs and Prayers for you.
Grace
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