Thanks for checking in with me. I tried several times to meet with the men I mentioned, but it never worked out. I took that as God's will, and have stepped away from pursuing that intervention. If the elders and deacons in that church continue to turn a blind eye to what my husband is doing, then the Lord will deal with them. The commitment to service of pastors, deacons and elders is a serious undertaking, and failure to deal with blatant, unrepentant sin within the church body will result in God's righteous judgement. The Lord himself addressed the serious nature of sexual immorality in speakng to the church at Pergamos in Revelation 2:12-16. I pray that they open their eyes, repent and exhort.