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Post by Deleted on Mar 17, 2017 9:25:05 GMT -7
Wow..your so strong.. how powerful! ... i pray i get to were you are one day... im sure i will! God is working on me!
Thanks for sharing! That was awesome!
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Post by Deleted on Mar 17, 2017 9:26:25 GMT -7
I hate feeling weak and powerless... plus i fear he wont choose me... but i will keep reading your post and learning from your strength... WOW! you go goldie!
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Post by Deleted on Apr 13, 2021 7:46:44 GMT -7
I have been dealing with this for 6 years now. Every 3 months I will catch him at it and he says he will change and get help. We have tried counseling but it seemed to be all about his abusive childhood and how that screwed him up. He has been on every porn and hookup site imaginable and uses condoms and viagra in large quantities. We have only had sex once in the past year. I'm getting older now and all this has resulted in me having a negative self image problem even though I am healthy and height weight proportionate. Life is short. I beg God constantly for help in what to do. Last discovery was just 4 days ago when I looked at his phone and an email I didn't know he had. He said he was hacked! I had heard that one before. Then later he admitted to it. He's had women over performing sex acts for him though he says he never touches them. Soooooo disappointing. If I leave I will live in poverty and say farewell to a nice house and garden. If only I could go live somewhere else and get away from his dispicable ways. We have no family or friends around. I wish I was fearless about leaving him. I'm sick at heart and sad that satan has robbed so many men and women of what should be a wonderful connection between a committed couple. What to do. I guess hang in there and keep on keeping on?
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Post by KevinesKay on Apr 13, 2021 14:52:13 GMT -7
Hi, I wanted to just say, "Welcome to BG."
You're story is a sad one, and yet, you're not alone. I'll be praying for you.
Lord,
Please help my sister through this pain. Give her wisdom and guidance. Let her know that you love her so much and that you're always with her. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
@littlelady57, thanks for sharing.
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Post by Will on Apr 14, 2021 6:52:36 GMT -7
Hi Littlelady!
Welcome. It is a tragedy but it's the world we live in these days. 100 years ago people had more to worry about than indulging lust - if their crops failed they could starve! Now the enemy has us tied up in knots in the plenty we live in so that we are so comfortable and your story is so common. I don't personally believe in leaving a marriage partner in Christian life. Do you have a Church? If so the Pastor would be someone good to talk with about this. Hang in there. Pray to the Lord Jesus for a breakthrough in this problem. It's not the end!!! God is a miracle worker. Is your husband a born-again believer in Jesus Christ?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 15, 2021 2:37:04 GMT -7
Hi this is sad. It's not your fault whatever. It's always our fault. I have been clean for almost two months and before that was 4 1/2 years. I know God can change him but he has to hit a "rock bottom" and God can bring him there. A big question is "Is he a Christian?" I know you might not be able to answer that, and he might not be able to answer that. The Bible is clear that if we live this way, we will not inherit the kingdom of heaven. 1 Corinthian 6:9-13. I want to fear God and run from my sin. God can put that fear of God that is pure and holy. He needs to "detox" by removing all stumbling blocks, phone, internet, change numbers, change email address, etc. We can't fool God and God will punish sinners. But God's patience is for teaching us He desires us to repent (Romans 2:4). Still, I fear for lots of professing Christians, myself included (Matthew 7:21-23). I'm sorry if my comments offend, and I am not trying to offend or sound holy. I'm a guilty wicked soul who desperately needs Jesus Christ. I know Jesus can give sexual sobriety and change all kinds of our wrong character defects. Please heal your wounds by Jesus Christ. God will help you. I can't say how, but my wife is recoving from the damage I caused her. There is no excuse for what I did. I wish I didn't do it. I was not sexually abused but found sin at a very early age, and the pleasure addicted by brain and Satan brainwashed me to think women were just nothing but "things" and not "souls". Jesus is re-programming me into reality now. As I read the Bible, pray, repent, confess daily, cry, be accountable to my wife, and other, God is helping me, do what I got to do.
Dear God, please heal and help this women and please take her wound and heal it. Please help this man to stop sinning and fear You and think of reality and our short life. Please take him where he needs to go in order to stop it. In Jesus' name. Amen.
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Post by savagetribe on Aug 9, 2021 17:08:58 GMT -7
How are you? What's the latest? I pray that healing has taken place.
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Post by Ɖσмιиιc on Jan 1, 2022 3:09:56 GMT -7
hello @scared4 I just wanted to ask how are you doing? If your husband can sign up for our forums for better accountability, prayers, and support, he is welcome. I hope he is getting better now. Is there any updates?
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