Post by mike on Sept 7, 2005 5:23:46 GMT -7
> also....i'm not sure, as a new accountability partner, where i cross the line from "checking in" and "encouraging" to being "annoying" and "intrusive". any feedback on that? I'm trying to limit calling to every other day for a week or two, then cut back farther. And I'm emailing about 3x a week.....usually about other things, just to keep in touch.
I would say he should be doing most of the calling, as this is about his journey to freedom. This means he needs to learn to do the work and reach out of isolation. Continue to ask the hard questions every time you talk with him... "how has your mind been with lust... have you masturbated or looked at porn recently..." etc. he should be calling you every day for at least the first month.
I would say he should be doing most of the calling, as this is about his journey to freedom. This means he needs to learn to do the work and reach out of isolation. Continue to ask the hard questions every time you talk with him... "how has your mind been with lust... have you masturbated or looked at porn recently..." etc. he should be calling you every day for at least the first month.