I'm a new kid on this block... looking for a little encouragement as I walk through this journey with my significant other. I've been affected by porn in my first marriage... and didn't have the skills, tools, or information to deal with my circumstances. I hope this time around helps me to grow to be a better person and to continue to love him for who he is and not what he does. I look forward to reading you guys. :-)
Welcome to the forums. I pray you find the help and encouragement you need here. It is difficult for significant others to deal with this addiction especially when the addict is still acting out.
I look forward to getting to know you. Please feel free to read and post in all our forums. There is much wisdom and insight in them plus we like to kick back and have fun too. You will find light hearted threads as well.
I will be praying for you.
“The first step on the way to victory is to recognize the enemy.” Corrie ten Boom
Post by homeschooler3 on Dec 10, 2015 7:14:50 GMT -7
Welcome to BG! You've come to the right place. We don't try to fix each other, but encourage and listen and pray for each other. You also won't be judged here for posting or venting your thoughts and feelings.
Have a look around and read some older posts if that helps.
I'm sorry you're going through this a 2nd time. I've been in my 1st marriage for almost 20 years and my hubby was an P addict for over 10 and he tried to quit on his own. I finally had to separate from him in the home and give him a boundary list of things he needed to do to stay married to me and one of those was P blocking software on all devices.
teetop: A quick note: I probably won't be around for a week or so as we pack and move. Sandy to her sisters and I, homelessness.
Sept 18, 2018 10:03:46 GMT -7
teetop: I'm still reading Mike Genung's book, The Wife's Heart, interesting.
Sept 18, 2018 10:11:55 GMT -7
teetop: The only problem I have with the e-version of his (Mike Genung)books is the inability of writing my notes on the sidelines nor note the specific line number.
Sept 18, 2018 14:49:40 GMT -7
Amymine712: I will be praying for your situation Tee
Sept 18, 2018 17:49:12 GMT -7
teetop: It seems that I have offended many here on Blazing Grace and to that end I am sorry.
Sept 22, 2018 8:39:07 GMT -7
teetop: Both requests have been acted on and I am sorry I've offended anyone here on Blazing Grace. Virgil
Sept 23, 2018 15:13:27 GMT -7
Amymine712: Tee, how are you doing?
Sept 23, 2018 15:15:52 GMT -7
teetop: To answer your question Amy, not so good today. Too many things rearing their ugly head all at once.
Oct 19, 2018 18:54:40 GMT -7
teetop: Pro 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart And do not lean on your own understanding. Pro 3:6 In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He will make your paths straight. ]
Oct 19, 2018 19:17:44 GMT -7
ridat: Teach me Your way, ADONAI, that I may walk in Your truth. Give me an undivided heart to fear Your Name.
Nov 18, 2018 2:09:15 GMT -7
freerein: Wife of an addict here trying to gain wisdom.
Dec 2, 2018 21:58:15 GMT -7
Amymine712: Welcome freerein. I moved your thread to the wife's section so that the wives would be more likely to see it. You are welcome to post everywhere on the forums.
Dec 3, 2018 9:43:46 GMT -7
Will: HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jan 3, 2019 4:57:58 GMT -7
Dominic M.: Thank you for bring the forums back.
Jan 9, 2019 21:07:52 GMT -7
Amymine712: I was surprised that they were down. Mike got them back up! So grateful!
Jan 10, 2019 4:35:27 GMT -7
Will: Yep thanks for bringing the forums back!
Jan 12, 2019 1:27:13 GMT -7
Dominic M.: Praying for us.
Jan 24, 2019 2:37:11 GMT -7
zat: Thank you guys for the approval. I hope to find the sharing platform here.
Jan 30, 2019 10:33:56 GMT -7
Amymine712: You are welcome! Feel free to start a thread and tells us about yourself.
Jan 31, 2019 3:43:48 GMT -7
Dominic M.: how is everyone out there?
Apr 30, 2019 17:14:37 GMT -7