Post by Deleted on Mar 27, 2013 4:59:29 GMT -7
Hi,
I'm a Christian virgin guy trying to maintain my virginity till marriage and stay away from masturbation, lust and all pornography. I hope to continue to stay as pure as I can awaiting the relationship with the special woman I will meet.
I'm good looking and I think that women just assume that I'm sexually active even in my church singles group and the ones that I have disclosed my virginity too are always surprised and even doubt me which at times is very frustrating.
Being a virgin, I do not have a issue with pre-marital sex and do not wish to experience sexual intercourse before I get married. Though I'm a virgin, and I hope to meet one like myself to marry, it is not essential that I do.
I have dated a bit and am perfectly willing to keep pure with my dates and just holding hands and kissing is very special but in some of the relationships I have had, as we got closer, some of the women were not willing to wait and the relationship ended.
I do not lust after women much at all though I desire to have that special relationship with one someday soon. I'm patient to wait for the right one but sometimes it is difficult seeing friends date and even marry while I have not.
I try not to masturbate and do pretty well with keeping clear of it but some accountability is helpful but right now there is no guy I know that believes in male virginity to discuss my goals.
I think that being accountable and having support, and also to be able to understand the pressures and issues guys have in keeping their virginity and to be willing to support the efforts of others in the same situation would be very helpful.
I belong to True Love Waits which I was glad to join because I really thought I was almost alone in this area from all the people I have met. Most of my friends and others I meet think I'm crazy to keep my virginity which actually makes me sort of keep it to myself for the most part.
In doing so, I almost feel like it's a dirty secrete I keep instead of a beautiful thing and it is hard whenever talk comes to dating as I don't know what to say to keep from being embarassed about revealing my virginity to others.
I find myself pressured to almost lie sometimes to sort of "fit in"
I'm looking for other sites on the web like TLW that encourage purity but I think knowing that you are answerable to someone on a regular basis would help keep me and others on the path to their goals in this area.
I would feel like a part of like a club of male virgins.
Let me know if anyone knows of people that feel the same and sites which support this and I'll be looking through the Blazinggrace site as I saw others talking a bit about this.
Thanks and good luck and I'll be praying for all.
Virgin Paolo
I'm a Christian virgin guy trying to maintain my virginity till marriage and stay away from masturbation, lust and all pornography. I hope to continue to stay as pure as I can awaiting the relationship with the special woman I will meet.
I'm good looking and I think that women just assume that I'm sexually active even in my church singles group and the ones that I have disclosed my virginity too are always surprised and even doubt me which at times is very frustrating.
Being a virgin, I do not have a issue with pre-marital sex and do not wish to experience sexual intercourse before I get married. Though I'm a virgin, and I hope to meet one like myself to marry, it is not essential that I do.
I have dated a bit and am perfectly willing to keep pure with my dates and just holding hands and kissing is very special but in some of the relationships I have had, as we got closer, some of the women were not willing to wait and the relationship ended.
I do not lust after women much at all though I desire to have that special relationship with one someday soon. I'm patient to wait for the right one but sometimes it is difficult seeing friends date and even marry while I have not.
I try not to masturbate and do pretty well with keeping clear of it but some accountability is helpful but right now there is no guy I know that believes in male virginity to discuss my goals.
I think that being accountable and having support, and also to be able to understand the pressures and issues guys have in keeping their virginity and to be willing to support the efforts of others in the same situation would be very helpful.
I belong to True Love Waits which I was glad to join because I really thought I was almost alone in this area from all the people I have met. Most of my friends and others I meet think I'm crazy to keep my virginity which actually makes me sort of keep it to myself for the most part.
In doing so, I almost feel like it's a dirty secrete I keep instead of a beautiful thing and it is hard whenever talk comes to dating as I don't know what to say to keep from being embarassed about revealing my virginity to others.
I find myself pressured to almost lie sometimes to sort of "fit in"
I'm looking for other sites on the web like TLW that encourage purity but I think knowing that you are answerable to someone on a regular basis would help keep me and others on the path to their goals in this area.
I would feel like a part of like a club of male virgins.
Let me know if anyone knows of people that feel the same and sites which support this and I'll be looking through the Blazinggrace site as I saw others talking a bit about this.
Thanks and good luck and I'll be praying for all.
Virgin Paolo