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Jul 9, 2012 9:47:09 GMT -7
Post by Deleted on Jul 9, 2012 9:47:09 GMT -7
Do you ever trust your sex addict husband again?
Are there wives out there saying "yes!" to the screen?
I do not trust him. Nothing he says.
How sad is that?
If you do not have trust you do not have a relationship, isn't that right?
LadyP
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Jul 9, 2012 11:54:40 GMT -7
Post by Deleted on Jul 9, 2012 11:54:40 GMT -7
Hi LadyP,
Only trustworthy behavior builds trust. Once the behavior is trustworthy for a time, different for each couple, then words may be trusted.
People can have only superficial relationships, not intimate ones, without trust.
TruthSeeker
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Jul 10, 2012 8:44:29 GMT -7
Post by Deleted on Jul 10, 2012 8:44:29 GMT -7
Mmmm, trusting someone with an addiction. Trust in them to tell you when they slip? or if they are tempted? or trust in them to control their addiction...
If he slipped and told you as soon as it happened would you trust him? Or are you trusting him to control himself?
If I was addicted to something and wanted more than anything to get off it I would steer clear of it. In this particular case I would get rid of the internet and t.v. If I had to travel I would book a room with out a t.v. If I had a laptop for work I would make sure someone put all the security they could think of to make sure porn was blocked. And I would leave it that way till the day I die. Because I know that if it was there, I would be tempted and I probably would slip.
Has he suggested any of this things and if he has would you be able to live without them?
Mind you if my partner did all of this I still wouldn't trust him. But that's why he's not my partner now.
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