Post by Deleted on Aug 19, 2011 6:06:54 GMT -7
Well, once again, our differences were on full display last night. I fired the therapist, as she's clueless about what it means to live with a sex addict/intimacy anorexic.
The "husband" is so conflict averse that he agreed to continue seeing the therapist to work on his intimacy anorexia. Nice. She doesn't understand it, but she's going to help him work on it. I don't know whether to laugh or cry.
I resisted the urge to take over and do what needed to be done. I'm going to allow him to waste boatloads of money on this therapist hoping that at some point, the light will come on and he will take action for himself.
#1 Moral of the story: Ladies, just as you would do for your child, you've got to let them fall flat on their faces.........hard..........so that they learn.
#2 Moral of the story: Ladies, if the therapist doesn't understand you, FIRE THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The "husband" is so conflict averse that he agreed to continue seeing the therapist to work on his intimacy anorexia. Nice. She doesn't understand it, but she's going to help him work on it. I don't know whether to laugh or cry.
I resisted the urge to take over and do what needed to be done. I'm going to allow him to waste boatloads of money on this therapist hoping that at some point, the light will come on and he will take action for himself.
#1 Moral of the story: Ladies, just as you would do for your child, you've got to let them fall flat on their faces.........hard..........so that they learn.
#2 Moral of the story: Ladies, if the therapist doesn't understand you, FIRE THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!