Hello I'm new here.....

It just never ends does it, i will support you in getting rid of him get him out of your life and all of his sin! please support me in doing the same! i want it to be over 19 years of lies and screaming fights about his leering lusting masturbating to other women, alwaus told i was the crazy one, physical fights when he would lie and try to walk away from the problems.
It wont end because he only is now taking partial responsinlity but just blames our marital problems on we just dont get along!
So of course its my fault he is a lust/porn addict!!!! Of course!
All lies, he is all humble one day then all its not my fault. I hate him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! For desyroying my life my childrens home life! !!
Why me!!!!!!!!!!!! I could have marrid someone else but no!!!!!!!! Fall in love with a sex adfict with intimacy anorexia, wow at least i have finall figured it out.
Its just hard getting him out of here, he is nuts.

Hi LadyP,

If I understand correctly, you discovered some of this information, but am I correct in understanding that he volunteered much of it?  Yes, that could be that you told him to tell you everything, and not knowing exactly what you knew, he did.  I hope and pray that that was everything.  As excruciating as it is, with a little bit of time to reflect, do you believe that you are seeing any level of genuineness and repentance?  Please try to keep in mind that none of our stories are carbon copies of one another.  While your husband may have done many of the same things as another woman's husband, his reaction to facing it may be so different that the outcome may also be totally different.  I continue to pray that the distance between you will diminish over time of recovery and healing.  I also pray that if there is any deceit left in his heart, that God will reveal it to you, and that if there is not, that He will give you His peace that passes understanding.

TruthSeeker