Post by Deleted on Aug 9, 2011 22:07:55 GMT -7
I have disclosed to my wife everything relating to my sex addiction in the past weeks.
However, I did not mention a failed business transaction from the Spring of this year which leaves a liability of circa $13,000 with a business partner of mine. The business partner and I share proceeds 50/50 and so in my eyes this would be written off in the coming months and not an issue.
I told my wife the deal had failed but not the liability accrued and this morning she has found out about it, as the guy has emailed me as I have been offline for a couple of weeks trying to sort out my marriage and family situation.
This has opened the wound wide open and my wife feels I should have declared this as part of the disclosure.
I made sure that I disclosed everything relating to my addiction but as this business matter was "in hand" I did not feel it relevant to the process.
On reflection right now, I feel quite sick as this is a tiny announcement to make compared to my infidelity.
Yet, by not telling her, she must feel I have hidden other things.
This whole process is about truth.
I have told her the toughest truth's, yet, because I had taken care of a business issue, I did not disclose the extent of the failure.
Out of pride I did not tell the detail of this deal.
I feel truly terrible right now...and really scared that this non-disclosure will lead to us parting.
I have such deep love for my wife but did not want to add to a long list of financial woes as this one was taken care of.
However, I did not mention a failed business transaction from the Spring of this year which leaves a liability of circa $13,000 with a business partner of mine. The business partner and I share proceeds 50/50 and so in my eyes this would be written off in the coming months and not an issue.
I told my wife the deal had failed but not the liability accrued and this morning she has found out about it, as the guy has emailed me as I have been offline for a couple of weeks trying to sort out my marriage and family situation.
This has opened the wound wide open and my wife feels I should have declared this as part of the disclosure.
I made sure that I disclosed everything relating to my addiction but as this business matter was "in hand" I did not feel it relevant to the process.
On reflection right now, I feel quite sick as this is a tiny announcement to make compared to my infidelity.
Yet, by not telling her, she must feel I have hidden other things.
This whole process is about truth.
I have told her the toughest truth's, yet, because I had taken care of a business issue, I did not disclose the extent of the failure.
Out of pride I did not tell the detail of this deal.
I feel truly terrible right now...and really scared that this non-disclosure will lead to us parting.
I have such deep love for my wife but did not want to add to a long list of financial woes as this one was taken care of.