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Post by Deleted on Jul 16, 2011 5:36:43 GMT -7
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Post by Deleted on Jul 16, 2011 6:10:58 GMT -7
Hi LadyP,
Discussing his addiction with you is a beginning, but continuing to blame you is a hurdle which, until he surmounts it, will bring recovery to a standstill.
TruthSeeker
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Post by Deleted on Jul 18, 2011 6:02:09 GMT -7
Dear LadyP,
I'm using my phone to type this, so I apologize for typos and disjointed thoughts.
"Blame the victim" is classic addict behavior. Please
Don't allow it.
If you had refused to give an alcoholic booze, would you be responsible for driving him deeper into his addiction? No, of course not. That's silly, but it's a notion I clung to for sometime. It's nonsense.
Practice this: "I hereby unequivocally refuse delivery of any blame for your addiction.". Deliver it with force.
My best, DW
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Post by Deleted on Jul 18, 2011 6:42:42 GMT -7
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Post by Deleted on Jul 18, 2011 6:45:22 GMT -7
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Post by mike on Jul 18, 2011 7:35:52 GMT -7
>He's left the family home over the weekend, so I guess he thinks he's right!!
A man doesn't stop blame shifting and lust-seeking until he's had enough pain. Apart from a work of the Holy Spirit, the deeper he's in, the more pain is required to break his pride.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 18, 2011 7:50:19 GMT -7
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