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Post by Deleted on Jun 29, 2011 23:46:36 GMT -7
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Post by Deleted on Jun 30, 2011 3:15:18 GMT -7
Dear LadyP,
I'm thankful for the healing that is taking place in your life. I just read this yesterday, and it helped me even at this stage of my "recovery" to see some of this in print again.....even though I know it with my head the heart needs to be reminded every now and then.
Please see "Straight talk to husbands who watch porn," here: www.covenanteyes.com/pureminds-articles/straight-talk-to-husbands-who-watch-porn/
This was expecially poignant: "...How a woman reacts to her husband using pornography, then, is based in part on what she believes healthy sexuality and relationships should look like in the first place. So, what if, just for a minute, we asked ourselves how our relationships could look if we didn’t live in a pornified culture. What if, for a brief moment, men turned their eyes away from the fantasy images—the airbrushed photos, the clever video editing, the breast enhancements, and the thumbnail images that portray women like dogs in heat—and instead focused on what pornography is really costing them and their wives? Before we quickly label distressed wives as overly conservative prudes, what if we peeled back the layers and instead saw women who were mourning the loss of something they should rightly expect from their husbands: intimacy. ..."
I hope some of that helps you too...especially to realize that NONE of this is your fault.
My best, DW
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Post by Deleted on Jul 1, 2011 7:59:32 GMT -7
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