Post by Deleted on Jun 3, 2011 23:34:10 GMT -7
I found out last weekend that my husband has been talking to women online again....
When I met my husband 2 years ago he had a gambling addiction, and after a few months it became obvious he was still talking to other women. After many confrontations, and many sorry's and heartfelt apologies we got married.
2 months after my we were married my husband went away with work on a 3 week training course and slept with one woman and went out on dates with a few others. When confronted, he breaks down and says he has a problem, he has major depression and doesnt realise what he's doing. I agree to help him. Well another year down the track, after struggling with his depression, moving 2000 km to be closer to his family for support, I slowly begin to see the signs again. Last weekend i find my husband on the internet talking to other womenand trying to meet them that night while I'm in the next room !!!!
I find out that this has been going on for about 4 months....in the last 30 days he has been chatting to over 60 women. He denies meeting any, although I can see from the messages, he has been trying to meet a few in person.
On wednesday I tried to talk to him as he's been sleeping on the loungeroom floor since sunday. I ask to see his phone, I know he has been accessing the website via his mobile. I just wanted to see if he would be open and honest and show me. He gets up and walks out to his car with the phone and drives away. Needless to say I'm shocked and very very angry.
Thursday morning I go to work, but decide to come home and talk to him while the kids are at school. I walk in the door and find him online again, talking to women !!!!! I lose my temper and tell him to leave. He left and went to his parents house, 250km away.
Since then, we have had many text message arguments. He is out with his friends, staying out late, having a party. He says that he knows he has problems, and will see a councellor through work. I feel so hurt and betrayed. I'm left here hurt and he's off having a ball. I want to leave. But my daughters and I have no where else to go, my nearest family is over 1000 km away. We have only been here since christmas and dont have any trusted friends here.
He will come home again on sunday night and no doubt the war will start again. I am so incredibly angry at him.
Any advice?
Tired of the lies
When I met my husband 2 years ago he had a gambling addiction, and after a few months it became obvious he was still talking to other women. After many confrontations, and many sorry's and heartfelt apologies we got married.
2 months after my we were married my husband went away with work on a 3 week training course and slept with one woman and went out on dates with a few others. When confronted, he breaks down and says he has a problem, he has major depression and doesnt realise what he's doing. I agree to help him. Well another year down the track, after struggling with his depression, moving 2000 km to be closer to his family for support, I slowly begin to see the signs again. Last weekend i find my husband on the internet talking to other womenand trying to meet them that night while I'm in the next room !!!!
I find out that this has been going on for about 4 months....in the last 30 days he has been chatting to over 60 women. He denies meeting any, although I can see from the messages, he has been trying to meet a few in person.
On wednesday I tried to talk to him as he's been sleeping on the loungeroom floor since sunday. I ask to see his phone, I know he has been accessing the website via his mobile. I just wanted to see if he would be open and honest and show me. He gets up and walks out to his car with the phone and drives away. Needless to say I'm shocked and very very angry.
Thursday morning I go to work, but decide to come home and talk to him while the kids are at school. I walk in the door and find him online again, talking to women !!!!! I lose my temper and tell him to leave. He left and went to his parents house, 250km away.
Since then, we have had many text message arguments. He is out with his friends, staying out late, having a party. He says that he knows he has problems, and will see a councellor through work. I feel so hurt and betrayed. I'm left here hurt and he's off having a ball. I want to leave. But my daughters and I have no where else to go, my nearest family is over 1000 km away. We have only been here since christmas and dont have any trusted friends here.
He will come home again on sunday night and no doubt the war will start again. I am so incredibly angry at him.
Any advice?
Tired of the lies
