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Post by debbieh on Jun 11, 2022 20:13:12 GMT -7
Hi. It's been quite a while since I've been in this forum but I am very appreciative that such a thing exists for help and support and understanding. My husband and I have been married for 29 years. He has been in P since he was a child. We had several confrontations, arguments and ultimatums through the years and as he grew as a Christian and felt more trusting and confident in him and did not know that the problem had never left but that he had just gotten better and better at hiding. So when it all came out seven years ago I was shocked and devastated to find out the extent of deception and infidelity. Fast forward to today--its been 3 weeks since I found out that he has been back in P for over a year. I thought my marriage was done and said so. I couldn't go through the pain and I truly believed that he needed to be released to the full consequences of his actions for his own good. But God. He has shown me a different way. He has worked in my heart. He has renewed my compassion. And so today I have hope. I don't know how this will all turn out but today I have some peace and I am thankful to not have to do this alone.
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Post by Ɖσмιиιc on Jun 12, 2022 4:16:50 GMT -7
welcome and thank you for sharing your story. My wife also has given me ultimatums, and did at once leave me taking our children. God brought us back together. I hope your husband will repent (like we all need to) and really make God the Lord of His life, then we can be filled with the Holy Spirit and be done with the old man.
There are many wives here but share from time to time. If you want more contact with them, please check the member list and sort it by date online and try to see if they have made their contact information available. You can start there if you need that kind of help.
My wife has been healing and I need to assure her that she is the only one for me, I hope your husband will do that too.
John the Baptists told them to prove their repentance by their deeds, and this is one way we (guys who fell into this garbage adultery) can prove we are done with the old way of life.
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Post by KevinesKay on Jun 15, 2022 20:24:57 GMT -7
Welcome back debbieh thanks for sharing your story
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Post by Will on Dec 29, 2022 6:28:08 GMT -7
Hey Debbie. God bless you for your Biblical support of your husband in exceptionally difficult circumstances! Does your husband have a male authority figure who is a Christian brother who can get involved with making him accountable for this behaviour? I believe men need men to tell them what to do. We struggle a lot (at least I do) with being held accountable by women. God bless you! Would love to hear an update on your situation Will
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