Post by Deleted on Mar 14, 2019 10:36:15 GMT -7
Hi I wondering if any of you guys have had any experience with the 90 reboot? I think it refers more to abstinence from pornography and masterbation. I have read different schools of thought about abstaining entirely from sex for married couples. Since about the age of 16, the longest my husband has abstained from any sort of sexual activity was during 3 months of boot camp. Bu I really don’t even count that because I went to boot camp too and trust me the last thing on your mind is any sort of sexual activty.
we have been going it like rabbits since his confession about his porn use. He was secretly using porn throughout our entire 12 years of marriage and though his confession was devastating, I still wanted to have sex, not only because I have a very high sex drive, but because I felt like it would start to retrain his brain to want to become closer to only me. I kind of want to see if he would be able to do it, but I’m afraid it might totally turn him off and take him right back to porn and it would ruin our relationship. He has been doing great so far and says that if I wanted to do it and if the counselor recommended it he would be more than happy to do it. I’m just interested in what you guys think about all that!
Thanks in advance for halls thoughts and advice!
we have been going it like rabbits since his confession about his porn use. He was secretly using porn throughout our entire 12 years of marriage and though his confession was devastating, I still wanted to have sex, not only because I have a very high sex drive, but because I felt like it would start to retrain his brain to want to become closer to only me. I kind of want to see if he would be able to do it, but I’m afraid it might totally turn him off and take him right back to porn and it would ruin our relationship. He has been doing great so far and says that if I wanted to do it and if the counselor recommended it he would be more than happy to do it. I’m just interested in what you guys think about all that!
Thanks in advance for halls thoughts and advice!