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Post by Deleted on Jul 16, 2017 11:03:27 GMT -7
I literaly teared up when i read your posts butterfly... I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS!!! I WANNA SHOUT IT FROM THE ROOF TOPS! its so wonderful to be working together to repair your marriage... praise GOD!!!
I knew your H had it in him to fight satan and his evil temptations... i believed in him! I knew you had it in you to see when he is fighting the good fight for you.. and you would soften your heart!! I believed and believed!
I know its definitely best to go slow.. especially with the trust part... you both can do it!
Listen up Butterflys Husband...please! no matter what happens... whatever you do be absolutly honest with her and then put something inplace to stop whatever the breach was! My suggestion is no smart phone... no internet! Guys that have been sober for quite sometime still dont use smart phones because its to easy to be tempted and fall... its best to just avoid the option... But i am super SUPER proud of you! Your awesome.. keep up the good work!
This gives all us couples still struggling hope!
I will pray for you both and you guys keep it up.. enjoy each other.. its wonderful to feel peace and love!
Praise God you guys... with him all things are possible! Hugs... love!!! 😄😄😄😄😄😄
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Post by Deleted on Jul 19, 2017 17:13:02 GMT -7
THANKS so much for your love and support, GHP! I am just praying that H finds the strength to be honest with me about his struggles from here on out. THANK YOU for your prayers, GHP! We need them so badly! Praying for you, too! There is always hope because as my great-grandmother used to say, "Jesus Never Fails!" My H and I read your post together the other day and I think he 'gets' it. Yay. Thanks for saying that you are proud of him, I am too and I know that means a lot to him right now! Your support is so much appreciated! He leaves his phone in the bedroom and just occasionally checks it, so he is at least being mindful about that right now until we get him a phone that has no internet capabilities. I am thankful that he is no longer in denial and resisting, but seems genuine in wanting to fight this with me, not leaving me alone to try to battle for him and for our marriage and for myself all on my own, which PA addiction can certainly make a spouse feel that way. My only expectation is that he is honest with me about what he is doing online. Relapses happen. Big deal. No one's perfect. But what is perfect is that God has taken the hurt and pain away from my heart that my husband's PA has been causing me!! He has set me free from the emotional bondage & devastation that my H PA had over me! I AM FREE! And Hopefully, my H will stay free, as well! Praise God! I just hope that someone else struggling with this can read these posts and find some kind of comfort in knowing that they are not alone and that there is hope for healing, whether or not you choose to stay married.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2017 0:35:15 GMT -7
Butterfly I am glad things are starting to work out between you two. A few things I would like to ask you to consider. First think about going to church with him. It would help you both for you to be active with him in this area of your lives. Second see about getting couples counseling. The church leadership may be able to step in there. Keep working on communicating and listening to each other. I am happy for you both. And praising God for working in your lives.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 20, 2017 9:33:08 GMT -7
I agree with Amy... especially on going to church together... it just keeps gods word flowing threw your lives.
You guys are welcome for the support. Its my pleasure. I'm all about staying together and fixing it... if at all possible. I am the very lovable type.
You guys helped me to. Butterfly your spunk reminded me of who i once was. In my 30's i was spunky to. Confident and strong. I know that women still lives within me somewhere... i just gotta find her. Seeing you give that attitude reminded me that im far more than the person i am today. I gotta quit letting things kick the crap out of me and beat me down to the shell of the person i am now. Oh! But im a fighter... always have been always will be. I've pretty much had no choice! So thank you... thank you for reminding me that im worth something... that all women are beautiful in ALL shapes, sizes and colors...
You guys make me happy.. i know its gonna be a bumpy road with your H learning how to stay sober but i have full confidence in him. I know he will feel so much better once he us finally done with carring around the burden of PA... just stay HONEST!!!!!!!
You guys love each other and its a blessing. Enjoy it! Love ya'll Hugs!
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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2017 9:55:47 GMT -7
You're so sweet, GHP. Thank you for your encouraging words.
*love*
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