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Post by Deleted on Aug 31, 2018 16:22:09 GMT -7
I absolutely know that, my friend. And I have been manipulated tons in the past. I'm only now really able to stand up to that. Thank you for your prayers and support. I'm glad this site exists. I can't imagine going through this alone. I wouldn't wish our circumstances on my worst enemy.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 13, 2018 7:53:55 GMT -7
Hey kelly.. I hope you and your daughter are both doing well. Hugs friend..
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Post by Deleted on Dec 23, 2018 20:59:58 GMT -7
It's been while, but I am still here. Proceeding with my divorce when it's time to file. We signed the separation agreement and it should proceed easily from here out. I feel like I'm healing, but I absolutely don't want to see H or his family again. So far, friends at church have been supportive and understanding. I've only confided in a select few about the specifics of my situation. Otherwise, I have been bolder about sharing that I'm getting divorced and that's a hurtful, painful process o matter the level of conflict.
The encouragement I get most often is "you were married to THAT guy? You must be a saint!" While I appreciate that, it has me wondering how many people knew the extent of his problems and didn't tell me. Not that it's their place to do so, necessarily, but still.
On the plus side, I met with 2 of my pastors at church for encouragement and to find my way back there because it's where I feel most spiritually connected even though I don't want to see my H, which is inevitable if I'm there long enough. He will most likely not be allowed to get married in the church again because of his specific problems. Our pre marriage counselor told me he didn't know about his diagnosis either, and he would've taken me aside and told me not to marry him if he had known. I take it he will do the same if another fiancee enters the picture at some point.
His continued failure is axiomatic since I saw that he's back on fb since I'm no longer there to (in his words) "control him." It's a shame his mother is so blind to him because it a real battle he could use her help with. It's really not my problem anymore, though. Thanks for listening.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 24, 2018 11:01:54 GMT -7
Hi Kelly! It's nice to hear from you! I am glad you are healing. It can be a long road but God is faithful and will see you through to the other side. I would suggest that you cut all social media ties with your ex. It can lead to obsession on what they are up to now. It did for me. I had to block my ex and his whole family to be able to move forward in my healing.
Hugs sweetie! My prayers are with you.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 26, 2018 21:41:59 GMT -7
Thanks, Amy. I already did block him on social media moments after I saw his new profile. Hope you had a wonderful Christmas and that all is well with you.
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