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Post by Deleted on Aug 27, 2015 20:51:29 GMT -7
Hi, I just found out that my husband of 12 years has been looking at pornography. I am so brokenhearted. Is it possible to trust again? It seems impossible. I don't know how I will ever bear to be naked in front of him again. How can you have an intimate physical relationship with a man who has been looking at perfect women? I feel like it would just haunt my thoughts. I could never measure up.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 28, 2015 9:27:30 GMT -7
Welcome to the forums Ann.
Trust is something he will have to earn back if you decide to give him the chance. Is he willing to change? Have you talked to him about his porn use? If he is willing to change, then lay down some ground rules...counseling, meetings, internet filter (Covenant Eyes is good) and anything else that you need to feel safe enough to stay. Remember that you are going through this too...it's not just about him. Whether you choose to trust him again is your decision. Make him show true change before you trust him completely.
I know you are hurting and I know how you feel. If you haven't thought about it, give some thought to getting yourself into individual counseling. You are going to need all the support and strength you can get to get through this.
I am praying for you.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 30, 2015 6:17:33 GMT -7
Welcome Ann.
I made up a list and told my husband after going through countless relapses with porn with him, 1. Porn Blocking Software on all phones, puters...etc.
Find a Celebrate Recovery Program and get a sponsor.
We've been separated for almost a year b/c I had to put my foot down.
I will be praying for you hon. He has to win the trust back one day at a time. Mine has been sober for almost a year and I can feel some of the old and yet were learning new things about each other that we didn't know. I also see things in my life that weren't right.
You'll be in my prayers hon. Hugs.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 16, 2015 13:50:21 GMT -7
Ann,
How have you been?
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Post by Ɖσмιиιc on Dec 31, 2021 3:49:01 GMT -7
Hi, I just found out that my husband of 12 years has been looking at pornography. I am so brokenhearted. Is it possible to trust again? It seems impossible. I don't know how I will ever bear to be naked in front of him again. How can you have an intimate physical relationship with a man who has been looking at perfect women? I feel like it would just haunt my thoughts. I could never measure up. Hello, he can be changed by the power of Jesus Christ. How are you doing? I hope by now there is some progress on his behavior and commitments to love and respect you. Do you have any updates to share? Or need any prayers? |
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