Post by Deleted on Aug 20, 2015 7:59:15 GMT -7
I understand. You are a forever friend to me too. I sent you a private message about an hour ago. You helped me so much last week and I thank God for your advice to me.
I have been hurt a lot too. My biological father married again and didn't even invite me nor my sister to the wedding. She made sure my sister wasn't welcome to live there once she and her son barged in. She even took the bedroom set my dad bought my sister. She and her ghetto kids are more important to him than my sister and I. He does call though and when he does, my sister and I treat him as Christ would want us to. When I was pregnant with my first child, he finally contacted me (Oh, and he didn't come to my wedding that was a year after he married that *****) when my grandfather was in the hospital having heart surgery for congestive heart failure. A weird thing happened before we went down there. I tripped over my husband on the floor and when we were down in IL at my family's house, I started cramping and had to leave. All I got to do was say hi to my grandpa who I was close to growing up and my hubby gave him a tract and I had to get home to WI and down to the hospital b/c I thought I was going into early labor. My doctor said I jarred my abdomen. I was scared to death. He said it was a good thing I came to the hospital b/c ya never know. His wife tripped over something and had to go to the hospital, but everything was alright.
My grandma said she'd call if something went wrong. Well, he died. All they did was put an answer on my machine that my grandpa was dead. I found out later that he never woke up from the surgery. They didn't even let me know so I could come down and say goodbye. Well, I walked into the funeral parlor and when I saw my grandpa laying in the coffin, I grabbed my uncle and started bawling. How could they do that to me??
I just lost my last grandparent his May. And I didn't get to say goodbye to her. I also didn't get to say goodbye when my maternal grandparents died 10 months from each other b/c at that time in 2008, I was really sick. I see them both in Heaven b/c they were Christians. I don't know about my paternal grandparents.
We live 1000 miles from all of our families up in the upper Midwest.
I think one day, I'll get a call from my dad saying he's divorcing her b/c her of ghetto kids. One kid have three kids with three different men and she lives on welfare.
I'm so sorry your hubby is pulling crap. I hope you can get the divorce over soon and get him out of your life for good. Sheesh. He lost the court papers? Duh. Get a life dude.
You deserve way better than that.
I'll be praying for ya. May God heal your health and may he give you a peaceful life filled with job. I pray the doctors can find out what's wrong and may God heal your body and your spirit.
God Bless hon. Hang in there. If you ever want to fly out here, be my guest. We have enough room for you to stay here. We can go to VA Beach and chill out watching the waves and swim in the ocean. I finally got my tax return so we'll be heading to the ocean for a three night stay after Labor Day. Hubby and I are going away. And we'll do day trips with the kiddos to the beach soon.
I can't wait to get away. I can tell when it's time b/c I'm snapping at everyone. I'm going to stay up in my room for a couple of weeks and just chill until we can go away.
Private Message me any time you want to when you need to talk! )
I have been hurt a lot too. My biological father married again and didn't even invite me nor my sister to the wedding. She made sure my sister wasn't welcome to live there once she and her son barged in. She even took the bedroom set my dad bought my sister. She and her ghetto kids are more important to him than my sister and I. He does call though and when he does, my sister and I treat him as Christ would want us to. When I was pregnant with my first child, he finally contacted me (Oh, and he didn't come to my wedding that was a year after he married that *****) when my grandfather was in the hospital having heart surgery for congestive heart failure. A weird thing happened before we went down there. I tripped over my husband on the floor and when we were down in IL at my family's house, I started cramping and had to leave. All I got to do was say hi to my grandpa who I was close to growing up and my hubby gave him a tract and I had to get home to WI and down to the hospital b/c I thought I was going into early labor. My doctor said I jarred my abdomen. I was scared to death. He said it was a good thing I came to the hospital b/c ya never know. His wife tripped over something and had to go to the hospital, but everything was alright.
My grandma said she'd call if something went wrong. Well, he died. All they did was put an answer on my machine that my grandpa was dead. I found out later that he never woke up from the surgery. They didn't even let me know so I could come down and say goodbye. Well, I walked into the funeral parlor and when I saw my grandpa laying in the coffin, I grabbed my uncle and started bawling. How could they do that to me??
I just lost my last grandparent his May. And I didn't get to say goodbye to her. I also didn't get to say goodbye when my maternal grandparents died 10 months from each other b/c at that time in 2008, I was really sick. I see them both in Heaven b/c they were Christians. I don't know about my paternal grandparents.
We live 1000 miles from all of our families up in the upper Midwest.
I think one day, I'll get a call from my dad saying he's divorcing her b/c her of ghetto kids. One kid have three kids with three different men and she lives on welfare.
I'm so sorry your hubby is pulling crap. I hope you can get the divorce over soon and get him out of your life for good. Sheesh. He lost the court papers? Duh. Get a life dude.
You deserve way better than that.
I'll be praying for ya. May God heal your health and may he give you a peaceful life filled with job. I pray the doctors can find out what's wrong and may God heal your body and your spirit.
God Bless hon. Hang in there. If you ever want to fly out here, be my guest. We have enough room for you to stay here. We can go to VA Beach and chill out watching the waves and swim in the ocean. I finally got my tax return so we'll be heading to the ocean for a three night stay after Labor Day. Hubby and I are going away. And we'll do day trips with the kiddos to the beach soon.
I can't wait to get away. I can tell when it's time b/c I'm snapping at everyone. I'm going to stay up in my room for a couple of weeks and just chill until we can go away.
Private Message me any time you want to when you need to talk! )