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Post by Deleted on May 1, 2015 23:08:36 GMT -7
:?is there anybody out there that know about this or is dealing with it right now can somebody give me some help or something suggestions thank you so much God bless
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Post by KevinesKay on May 2, 2015 6:00:27 GMT -7
Hi Rev.happi, Welcome. We here understand the term intimacy anorexia all to well. My personal approach is that I keep myself accountable to others and this forum about including my wife into my week. What constitutes a wife point for me may not be a wife point for others. Early this year, I posted my experiences while doing "The Love Dare". It made a difference. What's interesting to me is that I've not done anything real profound. I guess making the conscious effort to include my wife as well as maintaining a sound strategy for avoiding P and MB are important. My wife appreciates the fact that I'm praticing honesty with her even if it hurts. And she sees that I'm taking steps to demonstrate that God and family is important in my life. I hope this gives you some ideas. I would like to encourage you to think of some tangible ways you can change to demonstate a better connection with your wife and share them with us so that we can support you. For instance, if you aren't already doing this, schedule a daily prayer time with your wife. I try to pray with my wife before we go to bed every night. It is said that couples that pray together, stay together. Blessings to you.  |
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Post by KevinesKay on May 2, 2015 9:00:10 GMT -7
Sorry, I forgot to pray. This is after all in the Prayer requests.
Lord,
Please help Rev.happi to draw closer to his wife. I pray that you restore what has been lost. May they rekindle the joy that they had when they were first married. We pray this in Jesus' name. Amen
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Post by Deleted on May 2, 2015 13:53:53 GMT -7
I'm really trying to give her love she to give me nothing but cold shoulder and anger.
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Post by KevinesKay on May 2, 2015 14:51:25 GMT -7
Rev.happi,
Why is she angry with you?
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Post by Deleted on May 3, 2015 5:04:58 GMT -7
When did she find out about your SA?
It has been 8 years since I found my H's SA problem and he didn't quit until we separated in the home. He struggled with PA for 11 years.
Even now, there are times I want to be close and there are times I push him away b/c I'm scared he's going to hurt me again.
BTW Welcome to BG! I will add you to my prayer list.
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