I am 50, married and have struggles with same sex attraction. I've struggled for years and have had times of victory and freedom, but then other times of bondage and defeat. I have a difficult time as I am alone in this in that my wife does not know of my struggle, which limits what I can do as far as getting help. I've been turned off by those who say "you have to tell your wife" as no one else knows my situation or anything about my struggle, so I'm especially looking for someone who is sensitive to where I am right now in this.
Any encouragement and support would be appreciated, if you want to drop me a private message.
I hope I can also be a help and encouragement to anyone else here.
Welcome to the forums. I appreciate your honesty. I have a married friend with kids who has a similar struggle as yours so I understand where you're coming from. It's not easy to know who you can safely share your struggles with. Have you been walking this road alone all of your life?
Amymine712: I will be praying for your situation Tee
Sept 18, 2018 17:49:12 GMT -7
teetop: It seems that I have offended many here on Blazing Grace and to that end I am sorry.
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teetop: Both requests have been acted on and I am sorry I've offended anyone here on Blazing Grace. Virgil
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Amymine712: Tee, how are you doing?
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teetop: To answer your question Amy, not so good today. Too many things rearing their ugly head all at once.
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teetop: Pro 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart And do not lean on your own understanding. Pro 3:6 In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He will make your paths straight. ]
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ridat: Teach me Your way, ADONAI, that I may walk in Your truth. Give me an undivided heart to fear Your Name.
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freerein: Wife of an addict here trying to gain wisdom.
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Amymine712: Welcome freerein. I moved your thread to the wife's section so that the wives would be more likely to see it. You are welcome to post everywhere on the forums.
Dec 3, 2018 9:43:46 GMT -7
Will: HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Dominic M.: Thank you for bring the forums back.
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Amymine712: I was surprised that they were down. Mike got them back up! So grateful!
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Will: Yep thanks for bringing the forums back!
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Dominic M.: Praying for us.
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zat: Thank you guys for the approval. I hope to find the sharing platform here.
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Amymine712: You are welcome! Feel free to start a thread and tells us about yourself.
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Dominic M.: how is everyone out there?
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teetop: Doing great Dominic. Thanks for asking. A slight bout of pneumonia that the VA Doctor said I had, ha, ha! (Horse pills now.)
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Dominic M.: VA. Cool. I'm also a vet. Thanks for serving brother.
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Dominic M.: For if we sin wilfully after that we have received the knowledge of the truth, there remaineth no more sacrifice for sins, But a certain fearful looking for of judgment and fiery indignation, which shall devour the adversaries. Hebrews 10:26-27 KJV
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