Post by Deleted on Jul 28, 2012 18:17:20 GMT -7
Hallo,
my name is Johnseeker, and I am coming to the understanding that I have been deeply hurt, and have hurt others, as a result of deep father hurt in my family.
My father left my mother and me when I was two. He was a serial adulterer, and married at least 3 times. He was a brilliant sportsman, but I don't remember him at all.
My mother was brought up in an orphanage, and had no relatives at all.
When they split, my father took the view that a child of divorce should be brought up by only one of the parents.
So apart from my mother I had no relatives at all. There was just my mother and me.
My mother, who is not alive now, was a very strong, controlling and jealous person. To be fair she loved me deeply, and did the very best she knew.
My question is what would be expected in my development as a person? I would much value comments on this.
Incidentally, I cannot agree that watching pornography if you are married, is the same as adultery. One may well be a disease, the other is definitely a betrayal of wife or husband.
Johnseeker
my name is Johnseeker, and I am coming to the understanding that I have been deeply hurt, and have hurt others, as a result of deep father hurt in my family.
My father left my mother and me when I was two. He was a serial adulterer, and married at least 3 times. He was a brilliant sportsman, but I don't remember him at all.
My mother was brought up in an orphanage, and had no relatives at all.
When they split, my father took the view that a child of divorce should be brought up by only one of the parents.
So apart from my mother I had no relatives at all. There was just my mother and me.
My mother, who is not alive now, was a very strong, controlling and jealous person. To be fair she loved me deeply, and did the very best she knew.
My question is what would be expected in my development as a person? I would much value comments on this.
Incidentally, I cannot agree that watching pornography if you are married, is the same as adultery. One may well be a disease, the other is definitely a betrayal of wife or husband.
Johnseeker